As simple as this sound, it is not always easy to tell a girl you love and getting the positive nod from her without being subjecting to rejection.
The truth is that no guy really want to be rejected after telling a girl that he’s falling in love with her, but only a very few actually get it as expected without much delay. So if you’re scare of rejection from the woman you love to date, be in relationship with and possibly marry her, what you’re about to read here now will definitely help you to get the positive response you most desire from here.
So, how do you tell a girl you’re in love with her without being rejected?
As scaring as it look like, it is actually getting the girl to love you and fall in love with you too is where you’ll need to do the hard work.
If you like a girl, don’t just ask her out immediately, 99% of guys who do such always get rejection from the girl, because the best defence mechanism women have is to give “no” for an answer, that’s very sure. That put them on a safer side because much is not known about you and they can’t entrust their heart into a stranger’s hand.
Here are the tips to go about it without getting the rejection that‘ll scare you
Try to be her special friend to gradually enter into her heart
Just being her friend alone cannot protect you from getting the awkward rejection but being her special friend will let you get closer to her heart and gradually, you can begin to enter into her heart as you begin to build rapport through the special friendship you both shared.
Being her special friend will require spending quality time with her, when she need a hand, your hand is always there to lift her up, have fun and exciting conversation with her.
But don’t get stuck into the friendship zone, which mean you should avoid being her best friend instead of her lover with special friend ability.
Lookout for reciprocal gesture from her
At times, some girls get carried away with your friendship characteristic and enjoy every moment you share with them without even thinking of developing interest in you. If you’re just the only one calling, texting, doing all the visit, and she does not bother about it. Then you’ll need to think twice if she will be actually interested when you will tell her you’re falling in love with her.
One of the best ways to gauge her interest is to allow her to miss you or cut down the number of calls or texts you’re sending her for sometimes, like 2 to 4 days and observer if she didn’t bother to call you and find out what is really happening to you.
If she does call you, it then means she is interested in you and has really missed you but if she doesn’t call you, she’s having no interest in you and you shouldn’t bother yourself to tell her about how you feel.
Flirt with her and talk late into the night
Being a special friend will also require you to flirt with her to get even more closer to her heart. Also talk late into the night with her, and one great benefit you’re going to get when you engage her with conversation into the night is that, you have the opportunity of asking her personal questions, that period is the period when she feels relax on her bed and not thinking much about anything except probably you at that time.
You may ask question relating to relationship, her personal stories, her experience even in the hands of guys and what she loves in a guy that she admire most in every guys. That will even make things clear for you which will allow you to get closer to a special place in her heart.
Surely, these few tips above is all you need to get “yes” for an answer when you tell a girls you’re in love with her, it is very difficult for her to reject you if you do all of these, she can only ask for some time to think about it and you can be sure of positive response from her.
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