8 Things Guys Will Do When They Are Seriously In Love (Must Read)

8 Things Guys Will Do When They Are Seriously In Love

I have lots of male friends,in fact I love to keep them as friend even my parent know that very well.In my little study about guys and my interactions with them,I discovered that guys actually could get seriously in love with a girl and when they do,these are the signs

1.He will always want to be with you

It is possible for a guy to be always busy but the truth is,if a guy truly loves a girl,he will try to create time out of his busy schedule just to be with her.

2.He feels so confident about you

That moment when you step into a place and he walks up to you and tell you how gorgeous you look even though you are not putting on the best of clothes.If he sees beauty in you when others think of you as ugly,That’s a sign.

3.When he is willing to wait

He may be one guy who loves $ex and loves making out with whoever he dates but when he decides to wait till he is committed “married” before he dig it down with you then it means he thinks of you as special.He loves you..

4.When he introduces you to his friends and family

When a guy loves you,he wont hesitate to do the needful because He feels lucky having you and he is scared of loosing you to another guy.

5.He always want to be seen in public with you by his side

When he takes you out to every occasion he attends,it doesn’t mean he is selfish/overprotective of you.it means he feels confident about you and he loves you.He doesn’t see the relationship as just a joke and he is ready to invest his time and his resource to build up lovely memories.

6.When he sees you and smile even though he is upset

When your guy seem to be upset with everything and everybody around him but immediately you show up he smiles like……..That is a sign that you mean a lot to him.

7.When he respect your privacy and is concerned about your success

when he respect the fact that you need to work or study and in most cases he’s willing to burn the night with you just to make sure you achieve your goal successfully. Then he loves you

8.When he tell you crazy things and does crazy things

When he tells you how many times he purged that morning after eating something funny,how had to sneak into the kitchen to taste what you were cooking when you were not looking,when he still kisses from you wen you are not looking….That means he sees you as a friend,confidant and as his love.

Please feel free to add yours,I dedicate this topic to the broken hearten ladies.May you find love

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6 Things Your Partner Wishes You Would Do More

6 Things Your Partner Wishes You Would Do More

Just like women, there are also a few things men need from their partner in a relationship, to make them feel appreciated and loved.

Some are listed below;

1. Respect him: A man is more likely to be satisfied in his relationship if he feels like he is respected by his woman. He wants to believe she considers him someone of honour and someone she is proud to call hers. Remind him that you respect him and show him that, through your attitude towards him.

2. Admire him: While women want to be reminded that they are beautiful, a man wants to feel admired by his partner. This is one of the reasons why a man would find himself being attracted to his subordinate as opposed to his superior. He wants someone who sees him as a man to be admired and be in awe of.

3. Give him space: Men and women process situations differently. While a woman is more likely to share her feelings to feel relief, most men would usually need some space to sort through their issues. When this happens, a man would need his partner to understand and give him his needed space without her making him feel bad about it.

4. Care for him: Men love to be cared for. They like to be nurtured through different ways. What this entails depends on the kind of relationship you share; it could be through cooking for him, massaging him, or doing all the other things he likes.

5. Be on his side: A man likes to feel like his partner is on his side, even during times she disagrees with him. He needs someone who os willing to take his side against any others and willing to understand his perspectives. He needs a relationship where he feels like his partner is his team-mate and not his opponent.

6. Support his decisions: Not only should a woman be on her man’s side, she should also be able to support the decisions he makes regarding the relationship and other aspect of his and his partner’s lives. She should be able understand the reasons behind decisions he makes and find ways to assist him in making his plans come to fruition.

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9 Lovely Ways to Use Your Hands When Kissing (With Photos)

9 Lovely Ways to Use Your Hands When Kissing

Kissing is a sweet workout that can spin your head around and make you happy in a matter of seconds. Even though you mostly use your lips and tongue during a kiss, your hands should also take part in this workout. The last thing you want to do when kissing is to stand still, even if you`re a fantastic kisser. When you and your partner do nothing with your hands, your kiss isn’t as seductive and pa$$ionate as you want. If you`re going to pleasantly surprise your boyfriend next time you kiss him, here are a few lovely ways to use your hands to jazz up your make out session.

1. Hold his hands

There’s something magical in holding each other’s hands when kissing. You show your partner that you want to be closer to him. You want to touch him and show your love. You show the warmest feelings of yours when holding your guy`s hands like in those French romantic movies. But don’t hold his hands if you don’t want to do that. He will certainly notice your insincere move.

2. Touch his chest

Not only do girls have sensitive BR*ASTS but man`s chest is also his erogenous zone. No matter whether he has some clothes on or not, you may run your fingers up and down his chest to let your significant other experience some new exciting feelings when during a kiss. Try to do it slowly and as gentle as possible to keep that wonderful tension going longer.

3. Play with his hair

Guys also like when women gently touch their hair. Play with his hair to add some pa$$ion to a kiss. Furthermore, it`ll help him relax and get the most out of the moment so he`ll be ready to give you more then. Whether he has a long beautiful hair or a bald head, touch it delicately with you hands to create a really romantic kiss.

4. Touch his face

When you kiss him, you can caress his cheeks as well. It`s one of the best ways to boost $exuality and to really burn the fire between you two. Sliding your thumb over his soft lips when pulling your head away also looks and feels amazing. Plus, you won’t have to worry about what to do with your hands.

5. Control his hands

The way you use your hands when kissing is important but what your man does with his hands also matters. If you don`t feel comfortable with his hands on his side, place them wherever you want. Your waist or booty are perfect options. Just take his hands and show what to do with them without taking a break when kissing. Men are smart so he`ll definitely understand your gesture correctly.

6. Touch his ears and neck

Touch his ears and neck lightly to make your kiss more delightful. It`s been proven that a man`s ear is one of the most sensitive, erogenous spots on his body so let your fingers make him happy by touching his ears. Also play with his neck and touch his muscles. Guys like to think that they are strong and powerful so why not emphasize his body`s beauty by touching his masculine neck?

7. Hug him

Hug your significant other as if you`re not going to kiss him at all. Place your arms around his back and get closer to him if you want to make this kiss genuinely intimate. It`ll be a sign that you`re sure you love him and treat him like a second part of your soul. Only truly happy couples can do this to show that their relationship is strong and serious enough to last forever.

8. Turn him on

You can turn him on even with a kiss only, but it`s much easier, more $exually and pa$$ionately to touch him down there when demonstrating your tongue`s skills. It`ll definitely make him want you and love you even more. Make your kiss hot by touching his sensitive body parts and get ready to have fun all night long because you`ll hardly avoid him after such a kiss.

9. Undress him

When you are at home, one of the best ways to use your hands when making out is to undress your partner. Do it slowly and gently. Be pa$$ionate and play with him as long as possible. Mens love such a game, but not all women are brave enough to play it. Are you one of them? Or, undressing him isn’t a challenging task to you?

When it comes to kissing, there are many mistakes most couples commit. While those mistakes can’t ruin your relationship, mastering some kissing techniques is always a smart idea. Use your hands correctly when making out to show your best kissing skills. What’s your way to use your hands when kissing?

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9 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO DURING SEX

9 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO DURING SEX

So many things happen when you are in bed with your lover. However, you must follow some simple guidelines…

These guidelines are meant to be strictly adhered to because a few blunders can totally spoil the tone of the moment.

1. Not kissing

So many people do not see any necessity in kissing their partners during sex. Some base this on the excuse that the positioning doesn’t allow for it or they are too eager to climax and feel that it might break the rhythm. However, whatever the case may be, it is highly recommended that you make an effort to kiss your partner during the act – it will only add to the experience.

2. Biting before your partner’s ready

Although some people like aggressive partners, biting any part of their body before they are aroused may lead to pain and discomfort (and might even lessen the chances of any further action ) or simply scare them off. You might have to check that your partner enjoys it before you bite their ear, shoulders, neck or any other part of their body.

3. Ignoring everything but sexualised parts

When you leave out some parts of your partner untouched, it sends out so many signals. You need to gently caress sexualized areas as this will help in exciting your partner further; in turn, increasing the chances of them pleasuring you back.

4. Putting your weight on your partner

Quite a lot of people lose themselves in the moment. Yes, it is okay but there has to be caution. You must endeavor not to choke your partner up just because you are on top of them. Do not totally forget you are right on someone by dropping your weight on them. This can kill the moment.

5. Staying quiet

Do you like to hear it when your partner is having a good time? So pay them the same respect and speak up when you’re enjoying yourself. Something as simple as a little moan, or even saying something like, “that feels so good,” will encourage them and educate them further on your moan zones.

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Guys: How to Get Over Being Dumped By Girlfriend

How to Get Over Being Dumped By Girlfriend

Did you just get a breakup? Are you feeling worthless right now? Are you dealing with a great amount of trauma because your ex girlfriend dumped you?

If your answer is yes to any of these questions, then, you stumbled upon this post. You are going to experience a great relief right now.

Why are you feeling ‘being dumped’?

From my experience of consulting hundreds of guys, I can say one thing for sure that is, a girl normally dumps a guy when there is potential partner for her.

Another interesting thing is, a guy normally don’t feel ‘being dumped’ as long as his ex left him for another guy.

So, why do most guys feel being dumped after a breakup?

It is because they think that they are being replaced by ANOTHER GUY.

For this reason they consider themselves worthless. They think that if they were up to standard, then they were not rejected.

So what about you?

Are you feeling being dumped because you loved your ex -girlfriend so much or because your ex – girlfriend dumped you for another guy? If so, then keep reading.

1) Welcome to the real world

If your ex girlfriend left the relationship with you because of another guy, then it doesn’t mean that you are not as good as her new boyfriend.

It only means that the love-criteria of your ex girlfriend has changed. It has nothing to do with you.

Everyone has developed his or her love-criteria throughout their life experience. When someone matches a good amount of those criteria, the other person falls in love with them.

When your ex girlfriend fell in love with you, you were matching most of her love-criteria. Since the relationship begun, you both have changed. Therefore, it may be possible that the love-criteria of your ex girlfriend have changed.

In this case, she doesn’t feel that much for you. That’s it.

And it doesn’t mean that you are a bad person.

The second thing you should understand is that it may be possible that her new boyfriend is matching most of her new love-criteria. That’s why she has engaged with that new guy.

This also doesn’t mean that the new guy is better than you. It only means that he is matching a few more things of her newly developed love-criteria.

This is the real thing why she dumped you.

Accept this and forget your own flaws. It’s not wise connecting your flaws with any type of rejection from a girl who doesn’t appreciate you.

2) Avoid virtual world for a while

It is very common for an ex to post cheerful images with her new partner on Facebook.

She does this just to make you feel bad about the breakup. The more you see her Facebook updates, the more ‘being dumped’ you feel.

The solution to this problem is simple. You just need to avoid Facebook, Twitter and other social networking sites for a while.

Or at least you should unlink your profile from your exes.

3) Avoid her for a while

After being dumped from an ex girlfriend, most guys feel terrible. They don’t want to face their exes. They try to avoid their exes.

This is what you need to do, too. You should avoid your ex girlfriend. By doing this you will not only avoid awkwardness but also prevent yourself thinking about a reunion.

4) Nurture yourself

As you lost your ex girlfriend, you have lost a good source of nurturing. That’s why you need to nurture yourself. Take some time to praise yourself for your good qualities. Write down your feelings and convince yourself that you are feeling down not because you are worthless but because your loved someone deeply.

Spend some time to rejoice the beauty of nature. Make tea or coffee and enjoy it with your favorite music.

Nurturing yourself is an important step. Don’t take it lightly.

Do all of these and you will soon get over being dumped by your ex girlfriend.

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5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship

5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship

It shouldn’t be an issue to debate on that ‘love’ and ‘loyalty’ are two different phenomenons entirely, yet, they go hand-in-hand with each other. Getting loyalty from the ‘modern’ Nigerian city girls sometimes, could be like the proverbial camel pa$$ing through the eyes of the needle, as projected by Christ in the Holy Bible!!! ..and especially, when your funds are low!

The average Nigerian girl that lives in the city might be a pain in the a$$ for you if you take her issues so seriously; carrying it on your head as if it was your destiny…especially, the flashy and trendy ones whose only dream in life is to surround themselves with as much material things as they can get . This situation might even prove worse when you are not aware of the ingredients that can bring about this loyalty. It is true that no one can be absolutely loyal, as other factors sometimes play their roles but disloyalty can be curtailed seriously when in relationship

1. She disappears during festive periods: If you are dating a Nigerian babe and she is fond of disappearing during festive times such as Christmas, New Year, Valentine’s Day, Easter, Eide-Kabir, etc, just know she is the disloyal type. She fake herself to be so busy during these times and absolutely make herself unavailable to you! She’s probably in the warm hands of another man who she feels can cater for her expensive taste and needs during the celebration season!!! Young man, you have no business with such a lady! I thought festive seasons were meant to be enjoyed together with friends and loved ones o:

2. She uses baseless excuses to explain her unavailability: Disloyal ladies hardly spend quality time with you except they stand to gain one material benefit or the other from you! To you, you are in a relationship. To them, it is ‘business’ as usual! . They always put the blame on rain, too much sunshine, breeze, traffic, friend’s wedding, etc, to avoid meeting with you but just tell her to come and collect a large sum of money you promised her and she will happily take the next available cab even if the whole rain in China, Vietnam and Cambodia combined is nothing compared to the rain pouring in the area where she resides!!! . Observe watchfully, bro!

3. She is so familiar with the joints you have taken her to and the regular male visitors there: She would know the prices of the range of drinks they have and the amounts they sell the ranges of foods they have in these places!!! She attracts ‘funny’ eye contacts and body languages from male folks around often and she sometimes wave at them when you act as if you are not looking! . How did she come to know about these places and what they offer if she hasn’t been taken to these places by different men on several occa$$ions?

4. Her phone hardly rings in your presence: Yes! Funny as it sounds, it is true. It is a tactful act that you should be a aware of…’your’ girl (everybody’s friend) could be the disloyal type. If she switches off her phone, you might suspect so she might put an old sim card that no one calls to disguise as a ‘good girl’ in your presence. This is an expo…if you notice something like this too often when she visits, try to call her number on your phone and see if it goes. If it doesn’t, don’t try to bother her on why she is using another sim she didn’t tell you about!!! Just know she is the disloyal type! You have an option…you can get up and dust your a$$ to save yourself further stress!!!

5. She spends your money but you can never see her penny: If she is the type that keeps her 20k to feast on your little 5k, just see her as disloyal! I wonder how some young men spend hugely on ladies who have never bought them a boxers or singlet before! Relationship is give and take. If she gives you s*x and nothing more for the financial benefits she gets from you, then she’s a pros!!! If not, what’s the transaction between a guy and a pros? Money for hand=back for ground . After all, who yansh dor help abeg!

Shine your eyes and be a Realist!!!

In the name of success, all women are bound to be loyal and confess that you are the man!!!

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How To Let Your Man Fulfill Your Romantic Desire

How To Let Your Man Fulfill Your Romantic Desire

Many women today complain of lack of enough romance from their men and that they are too monotonous in the way men carried out their romantic display with their wives. But when you ask any man his idea about how romantic he’s to his partner, men will list out several romantic gestures, and ideas that they have carried out with their partner.

When you take a look into all of these list men put forward, you discover that they are not bad ideas at all, they are all romantic but the women are complaining.

What is happening here? Something must have gone amiss, but the reality is that, you can let your man fulfill your romantic desire by showing him what it meant to be romantic in your own way. You should also remember that the word romance has different definition from different people, your man’s own definition may be slightly different from yours but all the same, you can harmonize everything together.

So, how do you let your man fulfill your romantic desire?

The points I want to make here is to guide you on how to meet your romantic craving, but you need to know that you can’t force romance in your own way into him but patiently wait for it grow to your own level when you’ve play your part well in it.

Communicate your desire with him; tell him how you want it, sometimes men a clueless about how to give woman their desire romance and it is at this point you need to come in and show him how you enjoy seeing him doing it in a certain ways.

Some men may not be comfortable with public display of affection where you want him to peck you in public, I have seen men that feel embarrassed when their women show some public display of affection in front of their friends. You may not like it but at the same time you need to explain to him that you really want to feel love at every time. Even though he may not too like public display but he must understand that you’re not making show for people to see.

Leave him some romantic note in his pocket or his office bag so that he can sees it every time he goes out and everywhere. You can write some romantic note or words like;

Touch me because you love me but not because you want to make love with me.

Touch the back of my arm and my neck. Hold me and place your palm against my upper back. Kiss my cheek, my forehead, the back of my neck.

Move closer to me and kiss me on my lips in front of family and friends and say thanks for being my love Be with me, talk with me, walk with me, and ride the tandem with me.

Tell me how beautiful I am in the morning when I first wake up with my hair ruffle, tell me of my beauty when I put on my makeup, dress up. Say to me I love you and always I will forever thankful for being the love of my life.

Say you love me in the morning, afternoon and evening and make it even the last statement at night before you sleep. Don’t let me ask before you rub my neck, shoulder and my back.

Excite me. Encourage me to face my fears. Rekindle my sense of adventure. Help me to loosen up. Push me beyond my limits. Make me ride a roller coaster with you.

Blindfold me and feed me. Bring me on adventures. Take me to new places. Enjoy new cuisines with me. Explore the world with me. Listen to me, look into my eyes and say I love you dear.

To be honest with you, no man will see all of these every day and still not fulfill your romantic desire. They are all call to action and reminder that will drive your romance to the rooftop.

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Guys: Wanna Make Your Girlfriend Beg For Sex, Try The Following Steps

8 Sure Ways On How To Make Your Girlfriend Beg You For 5ex

Have you been looking for ways to make your girlfriend/ wife beg desperately to have intercourse with you? Well, you just saw the right article.

1. Now, the first thing that attracts women is your physical appearance, so here are some indicators to make sure you are looking your best at all times. If you follow these steps, I tell you, your girlfriend will think Christmas will come early due to her newly well groomed boyfriend!

( A) You may think this is funny but I’m serious. Make sure your teeth and tongue are clean by brushing them twice a day. Preferably, use dental floss and mouthwash also. The results will be lovely white teeth, and besides, who would want to kiss someone with yellow, unclean teeth and a dirty tongue?

(B) Well kept skin will look glowing and healthy if you take care of it. This can be achieved by washing your face daily with a face wash to keep spots at bay. Drink more water. Drink at least 8 cups of water a day. Mostly if you are prone to breakouts or have acne.

(C) This is my favorite part. Eat healthy and exercise when possible to achieve or maintain a healthy body. Make sure your toenails and fingernails are clean, not grubby. Also groom body hair such as trimming, shaving or waxing your chest and trimming your groin.

(D) Make sure you keep your hair healthy by getting regular trims to stop it from being damaged. Also, if you have eyebrows that meet or are eadvertly close, consider getting them subtly waxed so you look nice and groomed.

(E) Take care of your facial hair, by shaving or trimming- whichever you prefer.

2. Now the second thing a person notices about another is personality. You have to treat your girlfriend by spoiling her (I mean not doing it too much, too much of everything is bad). Surprise her with an evening picnic in the back garden or a park or a nice dinner. Follow the steps in How to Be a Good Boyfriend.

3. Touch her affectionately and often. The sense of touch increases intimacy.

This is a$$uming you have been together long enough that she is comfortable being touched by you. Most ladies like it when their man touches them all the time, remember. Too much of everything is bad.

4. Be confident.

Dispel all notions of timidity, and make her feel she can depend on you. Ladies want men they can rely on. But don’t be too hard.

5. This is very simple but very important:

give her compliments and make her feel like the most beautiful girl in the world. By telling them that, you make them feel respected.

6. Make your move.

Put yourself in a romantic and intimate situation with you both almost nak*d (in undergarments). Tell her that you want to have s ex with her. She will most likely comply. If she doesn’t want to, BACK OFF. If you do not, she will then be uncomfortable with you, you will most likely never get to have s ex with her, and she might even break up with you.

7. Do it .

Try to find a comfortable place to do it on, like a bed or a couch or wherever she finds nice. Talk to her. Get in the position that’s best for both of you. If it seems like she wants control let her, or vice versa. Either way, as you are sliding your pen*s in and out try not to be too rough. A bad sexual experience can make her never want to have s ex with you again. Tell her you love her as you do it, and try to kiss.

8. Find different ways to do it with each other, it will keep the relationship new and fresh. Plus it will allow you and your partner to seek each others limits and knowing where to stop or where to go on. This will bind you and your partner even more.

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Break Up If Your Partner Shows Any Of These 7 Signs

Break Up If Your Partner Shows Any Of These 7 Signs

It is a sad and unfortunate fact that many women are in abusive relationships.

The most unfortunate situation is that many of them don’t realize what path the relationship is headed down until it is too late.

Here are some warning signs that you may be in an abusive relationship and should get out before it gets worse:

–Such partners degrade you in front of anyone that you meet. They do this to have dominance in the relationship. They like to destroy your self-worth so that you feel like you don’t deserve anyone better.

–They decide where you go, when you go, who you are friends with, and what you are allowed to wear. You have no control over your life anymore. Worst of all they cut out your social life.

–From time to time, they threaten you when you do that which is not their wish for you and maybe they believe you should seek permission from them on anything you want to do.

–When you mention that they hurt you, they will deny that they are doing anything wrong and state that if you didn’t do certain things they wouldn’t have to hurt you.

–In a situation when you are dependent on them, they will threaten to leave and take everything. They may even restrict you from working so that you depend completely on them for income.

–They will completely destroy any relationship that you have with your family and friends, they do not want you to talk to others about the relationship and they do not want other people putting ideas in your head.

–They will make you fear them:Intimidation is a way for them to control you and make sure you do everything that they want. They want to make sure that you are afraid to do anything wrong and too afraid to leave.

Make up your mind today and take the right decision.

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10 Signs Your Partner is About To Break Up with You

10 Signs Your Partner is About To Break Up with You

It’s happened to us all before – the breakup that came out of absolutely nowhere! But…did it really, though? Did you see the signs but couldn’t actually fathom the idea of someone not wanting to be with you anymore? (You’re so awesome! How?!)

This time, it can be different. You can take a step back and look at your relationship with a more critical eye and prep yourself for the inevitable. The end of a relationship is like the end of an era, no doubt. It’s heartbreaking and difficult to accept. And to be honest, getting dumped just plain sucks! No one wants to be the one who gets the boot. Just ask Scott Disick, America’s least empathetic dumpee. Being tossed to the curb can be hard on the heart – and on the ego. But the sooner you can spot a relationship headed for splitsville, the sooner you can begin moving on with your life and finding someone who does want to go the distance with you.

Sure, all relationships hit some lows. But when are those lows becoming too frequent and going on for far too long? Don’t let a breakup surprise you like a Shonda Rhimes plot twist. Learn how to spot the signs that the love of your life may have fallen out of love with you before you invest more of yourself into a doomed relationship. Who knows, if you can spot it soon enough, maybe you’ll be the one saying, “Bye, Felicia!” instead.

10. Hot $ex is a Thing of the Past

When someone is having second thoughts about whether or not a relationship is working for them, it’s not surprising that $ex may become a little less exciting or even disappear altogether. Yes, $ex can become less spicy or less frequent even in healthy relationships. But when your $ex life crosses over from hot and steamy to basically non-existent, there’s a good chance something’s wrong. If the quality of your $ex life takes a turn for the worst, it’s time to brace yourself for the possibility of a split.

$ex is a way happy couples connect with one another on both a physical and emotional level. If your partner no longer wants to do that, something could be amiss. If you can’t remember the last time you guys even had $ex – well, let’s just say you should start working on your Tinder profile. Just go download the app right now.

9. Moving to the Next Step Ain’t Happening

If you and your significant other have discussed the future but you don’t see any action, it could mean the end is near! (Luckily, not the end of the world, just this relationship!) You have to ask yourself why someone would be so reluctant to move forward if they are happy. The answer might be that they just aren’t happy anymore and are having some serious doubts about committing further. Whether you discussed moving in together or getting married, if those plans are put on the backburner for what seems like an eternity, your relationship may be headed down the path of no return.

Planning ahead is a sure fire sign your boo is on board for the long haul. If he or she just can’t envision themselves moving any further with you, you can’t be totally shocked when they finally call it quits. Do they brush you off when you bring it up? Or do they dodge the topic entirely? Yeah, the next step is coming, but it may not be exactly what you were hoping for.

8. Your Title is Abolished

If your sweets used to introduce you as their boyfriend or girlfriend and are now just introducing you by your first name, you may be dealing with more than just a rough patch. If your partner never introduced you in any other way, then it’s business as usual for you two.

But when you go from an obvious title to nothing at all, start sniffing around for more clues. What about pet names? Have those become ancient history, too? This is a sign your partner just isn’t feeling it anymore. He or she may not even be conscious of the fact that they’re doing it – which is probably an even bigger sign that things are over in their mind.

7. Intimacy Takes a Back Seat

Intimacy doesn’t only refer to $ex. It’s cuddling, holding hands, kissing each other goodnight and all that other sappy stuff everyone pretends is pathetic but really desperately wants more of. If you used to snuggle up together on the couch all the time but now can’t remember the last time your mate wanted to hold your hand, you could be on the verge of getting dumped.

Intimacy is a way couples share their love with one another. $ex isn’t all it takes to make the physical side of your relationship thrive. Some people may not be affectionate, which is perfectly fine. But if someone goes from bringing on the PDA to pushing away from your touch, it could be a sign of trouble. Any major change in behaviour should tip you off that the object of your affection is planning a big move – without you.

6. They Start Hanging Out With Their Single Peeps – A LOT!

When in a relationship, people may start spending less time with the one-night-stand friends and the strip club VIPs they once chilled with every weekend. If those single peeps – you know, the ones out cruising the bar scene every night – make an unusual appearance in your partner’s life again, there’s something to worry about. Especially if meeting up with said friends is becoming more and more frequent.

What do they have in common anyway? Most likely the possibility that your one and only may soon be re-joining the singles team – or is at least considering it. If outings with the boys – or the ladies – start becoming a thing and the crowd your partner is partying with are a little too raunc#y for your taste, it’s time to face the facts. You’re probably about to get dumped. Time to get your single posse back on speed dial and start rebuilding your life at the nearest bar.

5. They’re Suddenly AWOL on Social Media

Out of nowhere, your main squeeze decides social media just isn’t for them anymore. They suddenly don’t like the idea of being “watched” by Big Brother. Hmmm…odd, especially since it was never an issue before. But how does going Amish on social media have anything to do with your relationship? Well, it’s actually the perfect plan, you see!

Facebook and Instagram are basically online collages of you two sharing dessert, vacationing together, and watching the sunset. You even check in at each other’s apartments! If the fire in your relationship is gone and your partner is looking to move on, it would be pretty hard to do with pages and pages of evidence that he or she is still committed to someone else. With no traceable proof that you two are an item, your partner is putting themselves back up for grabs. If looking for a new flame isn’t a sign your relationship is dead, we don’t know what is.

4. Your Phone Ain’t Ringing

You can do all the test calls you want, we both know your phone isn’t broken! Your significant other just isn’t calling you back – which is a sure-fire sign they’re starting to write you out of the equation. Your voicemail used to have a ton of messages every day – it was borderline scary! And now you can’t get a returned call or text message without faking a medical emergency.

There’s definitely trouble in paradise when one person just can’t seem to make time for the other. We get it – he or she is just busy. But unless they’re out there deciding the fate of the free world or working as the PR reps for the Kardashian empire, they’re not busy enough to not make time for you! The question is: do they want to? Judging by your cell phone’s full battery despite not having been charged in two days, we’re going to have to say no, they don’t want to.

3. They Need a Minute – Or Like a Lot Longer

If your partner is asking for space in your relationship, it’s pretty clear they need some time to process how they really feel about things. They’re obviously having a moment and need to figure things out – without any interference from you and your relationship.

As time goes on, relationships can slowly become more distant. But a straight up demand for it – especially when it seems to come from absolutely nowhere – just isn’t a good sign when it comes to the future of your relationship. Even if it doesn’t mean the end for good, it does mean there is some serious doubt going on. That alone is enough to plant a wedge between the two of you and cause some damage you may not be able to repair.

2. Convos Are Turning Into Monologues

You guys used to talk about everything. With the cheeky banter going back and forth, you never had a quiet or dull moment. And now, you find yourself asking pointless questions just to get anything more than a one-word answer out of this person! You may even instigate an argument just to get some sort of reaction and still – nothing!

When your partner seems to shut down and doesn’t even care enough to argue with you anymore, it’s safe to say this isn’t exactly a match made in heaven. Your partner has lost interest in sharing anything with you and his or her mind literally goes blank when you strike up a convo. If you’re now the only one keeping the conversation going, you’ve officially entered into a relationship with yourself. On the plus side, at least you’re discussing with someone who is finally on your level!

1. You Just Know

Don’t underestimate the power of intuition. If you have that nasty feeling in the pit of your stomach and you just know your significant other isn’t in it anymore, they probably aren’t. You can try to come up with different ways of excusing their strange and suddenly distant behaviour, but eventually you’ll have to face facts.

If you’re not feeling the love anymore, it may be because the other person just isn’t giving you any. It doesn’t mean it’s anyone’s fault. Sometimes relationships just don’t work out without any particular reason. The sooner you can admit to yourself what’s really going on, the sooner you can get back into the swing of things and move on with someone who does want to pretend they hate PDA and loves shooting the sh*t with you.

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HOW WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY AFFECTS YOUR BRAIN (MUST READ)

WHY YOU SHOULD STOP WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY

Watching a lot of pornography can have a negative effect on the human brain, a study by some Germans has shown.

The researchers found that watching too much pornography could re-wire the brain and alter its structure and functions. It could also shrink part of the brain and reduce the ability of watchers to be sexually stimulated.

According to the study, having sex and watching pornography cause dopamine, the neurotransmitter responsible for learning, reward, emotions and pleasure, to be released in the brain.

The researchers noted that the more porn a person watches, the more the dopamine that is released, which makes the brain to be desensitised to its effects, which could reduce their decision-making capabilities.

Young people who watch porn frequently were also found to have reduced likelihood or tendencies to venture into risk-taking ventures.

The leader of the researchers, Simone Kühn, from the Max Planck Institute in Berlin explained that it was the first evidence for a link between porn consumption and reductions in brain size and brain activity in response to sexual stimuli.

She noted that men who view too much porn may become lazier than others and that their research provided strong evidence that pornography might harm the brain in some ways and change its size.

Kühn however, said the study can’t prove porn-watching causes changes to the brain.

About 64 healthy German men, aged between 21 and 45, participated in the study.

Stating their findings Kühn said: “We found that the volume of the so-called striatum, a brain region that has been associated with reward processing and motivated behaviour, was smaller the more pornography consumption the participants reported.

“We also found that gray matter volume in the right caudate of the striatum was smaller among frequent porn viewers. Men who watched more porn also showed less activity in another area of the striatum, known as the left putamen, which lit up when exposed to sexual stimuli.

“These brain changes are similar to those seen in cocaine addicts, who develop abnormalities in areas, such as the nucleus accumbens and striatum, which are responsible for learning, memory, pleasure and reward.

“Moreover, we found that another brain region, which is also part of the striatum that is active when people see sexual stimuli, shows less activation the more pornography participants consumed.

“In essence, the connectivity between the brain’s striatum and prefrontal cortex worsened with increased consumption of pornography, suggesting poorer and impaired decision-making capability. Thus, frequent pornographic consumption would surely change how the brain works, and basically, everything that people do very frequently can shape their brain structure and function.”

In reaction, a neurologist, Dr. Emmanuel Olusola, said there were convincing evidences to show that pornography could have an effect on the brain.

Also commenting on the study, a psychologist, Prof. Oni Fagboungbe, agreed that watching pornography could affect the brain, and that it could change the conditioning of the brain.

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36 Questions That Will Help You Find The True Love Of Your Life

36 Questions That Will Help You Find The True Love Of Your Life

Twenty years ago Arthur Aron held a clever psychological experiment: he asked a man and a woman, who had never met before, to answer 36 questions in front of each other, and afterwards they had to sit face to face in complete silence for four minutes. In half a year the participants of the experiment were ready to get married.

The great advantages of this set of questions are that it reveals the most important inner traits of the person in front of you (acquaintance or a stranger), one’s attitude to the most crucial points in life, unveiling vulnerabilities as well as strengths. In other words — you get to know each other in a profound way.

Juxtaposition of answers given by you and by your significant other will help you to evaluate your attitude to his or her perception of the world, and either imbued with what you’ve heard or decide that you two don’t match.

We’d like to share this priceless questionnaire with you. Be completely honest answering these questions in turns, and good luck with getting intimate with someone who really matters!

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?

3. Before making a phone call, do you ever rehearse what you’re going to say? Why?

4. What would constitute a perfect day for you?

5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you choose?

7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.

9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.

12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained one quality or ability, what would it be?

13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?

14. Is there something that you’ve dreamt of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?

15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

16. What do you value most in a friendship?

17. What is your most treasured memory?

18. What is your most terrible memory?

19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?

20. What does friendship mean to you?

21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?

22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.

23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?

24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

25. Make three true «we» statements each. For instance, «we are both in this room feeling…»

26. Complete this sentence «I wish I had someone with whom I could share…»

27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.

28. Tell your partner what you like about them: be honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.

29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.

30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.

32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?

34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.

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9 CHARACTERISTICS OF A DESIRABLE WOMAN

9 CHARACTERISTICS OF A DESIRABLE WOMAN

The dictionaries define “Desirable” as “worth having or wanting; pleasant, excellent or fine.”

Any man or woman who has dreamed of a future has probably created an image of what he or she would desire most in their partner. And most women have probably wished to be more desirable at some point. While the world keeps hankering over what exactly are the characteristics of highly desirable women, the truth is that we can only speculate. The definition will keep evolving.

However, we can safely say that highly desirable women will likely have the following nine characteristics.

1. They don’t chase people

Highly desirable women would rather chase their own awesomeness, because they know running after people is just a waste of time. They also know that it is a much better idea to become better versions of their own selves. The world will take notice when they progress in their own lives.

They don’t have time for such chases because they are just too busy creating a better life for themselves. That’s what makes a woman more desirable — that carefree, confident attitude. They are complete in themselves.

2. They are in control of their emotions

You won’t find desirable women moping about every bad relationship or failure in their lives. Instead, they are always in control of their emotions. They don’t waste their time and energy in harboring useless emotions that won’t bring them progress.

Simply put, desirable women would much rather be a shoulder when needed than be a constant cry baby.

3. They avoid gossip

Desirable women would rather use their time productively than for indulging in petty gossip. Gossip and too much talking creates drama. Desirable women know this. Petty gossip, useless talking, and drama is for school girls — not the desirable women that we look up to.

4. They are not attention seekers

You will not see desirable women posting selfies constantly or changing their relationship statuses on social media with every crush. They don’t like to spam people with such trivialities. They would much rather be known and talked about for their real and meaningful achievements.

They believe in earning attention from like-minded people, not snatching it with constant updates on the happenings in their lives. They earn respect instead of asking for it. They believe in maintaining a mystery about their lives which only selected people can have access to.

5. They don’t lose themselves in their relationships

It’s not that they hold back. Desirable women don’t lose themselves to create happiness for someone else. They have a life of their own that goes beyond the relationship. They don’t cling to their boyfriends or girlfriends constantly.

They don’t lose sight of their goals and dreams for love. They don’t lose their identity. Desirable women make smart decisions about how much time they are willing to devote to their relationships and to their goals. They set their priorities. They let their relationships add to their lives — not become their whole lives.

6. They have hobbies and pa$$ions

Desirable women make ma$$ive efforts to become better at their hobbies and pa$$ions. You won’t find these women constantly procrastinating. They find out what they love doing and do it with finesse.

Desirable women don’t waste their lives with mindless addictions, like staring at their mobile phones all day. They use their time to take up hobbies and work on improving. Some of the most desirable women are the ones who care deeply about their hobbies. It defines them and makes them more interesting people.

7. They are fiercely intelligent

Intelligence does not always refer to IQ. Desirable women are fiercely intelligent in terms of their understanding of the world and its people. They have a certain kind of wisdom that comes from experience, from a plethora of mistakes and a life full of lessons.

They have impeccable understanding of life and themselves — something that really adds to their desirability. They are no strangers to deep conversation.

8. They are always graceful

Women who understand and take pride in their women hood are the ones that know that grace and elegance are not qualities you compromise with. It’s not about their appearance but their aura. What makes them highly desirable is that they don’t worry about their physical shortcomings. They fix what they can and carry themselves with elegance and charm that only a lady can possess.

They dress well and know how to exude confidence. What makes this all the more easier is that desirable women know that grace does not come with expensive fashion choices. It comes with self confidence.

9. They are brilliant communicators

They have clarity of thought and it shows in the words they choose, no matter which language those words are in. The confidence that they exude can easily win over hearts. They are logical with the right mix of rationality and emotion. Desirable women don’t overdo it.

They will let you talk, make you feel wanted, hear you with compa$$ion, and show genuineness in their interactions. They know how important it is to be a good communicator and they also know what it takes to be one.

These are some of the characteristics of highly desirable women. Of course, there are many other traits that can be deemed “desirable.” Nevertheless, these are a few characteristics that will always draw us in.

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7 BEDROOM SECRETS WOMEN WANT MEN TO KNOW

7 BEDROOM SECRETS WOMEN WANT MEN TO KNOW

Quite a lot of women have so many things in their minds to convey across to their men when it comes to bedroom secrects, however, only a handful munch up the courage to express some of these secrets out.

Here are seven secrets women wish their partner knew:

1. A great talk is as good as being loved

So many women find having a great talk their man a massive turn-on. For them, talking and feeling loved work hand-in-hand. A good conversation while having a walk or while relaxing can go a long way to make a woman feel loved. It also helps the woman to be mentally prepared and very at alert for intimate moments.

2. Many women are anxious about their looks

It is natural for couples who have together for a long time not to find the woman attractive like the earlier times of the marriage. This insecurity of feeling less alluring makes some women to only get naked only under the cover of darkness. Caring men can sense such anxieties. There is no need to lie and say she’s gorgeous if she isn’t, nor is there a need to say that she is not attractive anymore. One can always appreciate and praise what you do find attractive.

3. For a woman sex isn’t separate from rest of her life

While sex is just a little part of a man’s life, women on the other hand tend to view sex as a great chunk of their lives. Men can compartmentalize, feeling that stressful aspects of life can be parked mentally and separated from sexual activity. Women need good feelings and experiences during the day to have satisfying sex. How her lover treats her out of bed, greatly influences her response in bed. Inattentiveness, harsh language, rude tones, hurtful words, and criticism can make it difficult for a woman to get involved, feel enthusiastic and be passionate during sex.

4. Women adore non-sexual touching and tenderness

Every woman loves romance, cuddling, hand-holding and kissing. However, lots of women have complain that their men never do this except during foreplay. A woman should make her man realise the joy of touching. As you give him a relaxing massage and stroke his face and hair tenderly, he starts experiencing the joy of this kind of non-sexual touching. Tell your man what makes you feel loved and wanted.

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Why Some Guys Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts

Why Some Guys Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts

There is a concise expression that the measure you give is the measure you shall receive. (garbage in, garbage out)

Before I start, I want you all to know that no matter how we try embellish pre-marital se x, it will never change the fact that it’s EVIL, so all ye Pastors, relax your mind because this is not to lure people into premarital $ex (make una no quote Bible for my head oooo)

And lastly, if you are bereft of good comprehension skills, kindly meet with your neighbour(s) with good comprehension skills for better explanation

10 Reasons Why You Should Not Blame Guys For Dumping Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts

1. She Doesn’t Have A Good Record

Ladies, are you aware that guys make research before wooing you? Ooooh yes !!! They might ask quite a few numbers of people who know you well but may not be in talking terms with you. When he gets a negative report like, that babe sure gan oooooo, na so she dey park men up and down.. My dear, to be frank, if he doesn’t have church mind, he will also want to mark register

2. She’s Deceitful

Who likes to mingle with a deceitful lady ?

A lady who deceives a guy with padded br@ and p@nt will definitely bite her fingers at the end of the day. If he later gets to know that your bosoms and buttocks are as flat as 2B exercise book, never blame him if he dumps your a$$ aftermath of love making

3. She Lied About Being A Virgin

Guys hate when ladies lie about being virgins. If you lie about being a virgin and he later gets to know that you are as wide as Lagos-Ibadan expressway after two years of celibacy. He will definitely zoom off at Usain Bolt pace.

4. She Turned Him Into A Maga

My research and finding have shown that when a guy pays your bill out of his kind gesture and he realizes you go about telling people that he’s a maga. He will treat you like a money (use of banaba) and waves goodbye the moment he gets under your skirt

5. She Acts Like A Peacock

Guys love ladies who give them tough time but your shakara must be done with moderation or else, your excess pride, shakara and yanga will make him dump your a$$ after the deed. He might just like, upon all my stress and dis girl yeye shakara, no be she I bleep so ? Upon say she make everything hard as LASU Post UME exam

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TOP 5 ANNOYING QUESTIONS AFRICAN GUYS ASK GIRLS

TOP 5 ANNOYING QUESTIONS AFRICAN GUYS ASK GIRLS

African guys can be very bold and direct in the beginning of the courting process. They tend to ‘get to the point’ a bit too quickly and come-off abrasive at times.

This can be a complete turnoff! The manner in which they ask ladies questions can come off in an interrogative style and immediately kills the potential of a relationship before it even officially started!

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but some of the questions that African guys ask can be very intrusive, annoying and seem offensive during the initial stages of meeting someone. I’m not saying that Blacks behave in this manner, but quite a number of them have such attitudes. I’ve had my fair share of experiences with African guys and have heard a number of stories about other people’s experiences.

Down below are the Top 5 Annoying Questions African Guys Ask Girls.

1. Do you know how to cook?

When will an African man get tired of asking this question? I understand that a ‘true’ old school African man wants to marry a woman who’s an exceptional cook, but that isn’t the reason to bring this topic up 5 minutes after meeting someone. They don’t understand that there is a time and place to ask a lady such a question and doing it too soon can be a real mood killer.

2. What does your father do?

When African guys ask this question, I strongly believe that they should be stared at as if they’re off their rockers. Seriously! Such a question shouldn’t even be a topic of discussion right off the bat.

At times, I wonder if guys are trying to date people’s fathers, how it’s their business and if they “actually” know it’s an inappropriate question to ask before properly getting to know someone. They sound as if the income of the lady’s father they’re courting determines whether or not they will date her.

3. Why are you still single?

This is honestly one of the most ridiculous questions a guy can ask after meeting someone. Who knows what the magic answer is that they want to hear? “I haven’t found the right one yet” “I’ve been waiting on you” or “I don’t know oh”? Comot jare!

It’s a very strange question to ask because it puts ladies in an awkward position. Single ladies are single for different reasons and some people don’t always feel comfortable sharing such information so suddenly. Honestly, some of us don’t even have a direct answer for that question.

4. Are you a virgin?

This is such a random and ill-mannered question to ask someone. Such a question is extremely personal and a lot of ladies don’t like discussing their virginity with guys & even fellow girls. It puts them on the spot.

Some ladies who have already engaged in sexual intercourse might be fine with chatting about such matters, while some virgins are already insecure enough about their sexuality. In today’s day and age, a lot people are having sex like mad animals and guys don’t understand that the subject of sex might still be sensitive for some girls.

5. Are we going to have sex?

African guys need to stop following question 4 with this question. It’s so off-putting and truly shines a negative light on them. I find this question truly degrading on the lady’s behalf and as a sign of desperation on the guy’s. When women are ready to engage in sexual intercourse, my brothers, they will let you know!

I don’t believe any proper lady with dignity is going to give you a timeline of when to have sex with her. Having sex too early is the reason why a lot of relationships don’t last. It puts pressure on the lady to do something she might not be ready for and relationships are NOT mainly based on sex alone!

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WHY YOU SHOULD START SLEEPING NAKED (MUST READ)

WHY YOU SHOULD START SLEEPING NAKED

Most of us wear pajamas to bed and it`s okay because they’re aimed for comfortable sleeping. But years ago I tried to neglect this rule, and still prefer to sleep nak*d and enjoy many useful benefits of this habit. It lets you stop caring about buying new pajamas and wearing them before you going to sleep. Moreover, sleeping nak*d helps you sleep better at night and feel refreshed in the morning. There are many more advantages of sleeping nak*d and here’s why you should do it regularly.

1. Get rid of belly fat

When you sleep, the level of stress hormone decreases. Thanks to it you wake up in the morning feeling energetic enough to be the winner today. People who use pajamas don`t let their body fully relax because sleeping dressed isn`t natural and it prevents your from having a healthy sleep. If you don`t get enough sleep, your stress level will be enormously high and you`ll be eager to eat more. Try to sleep nak*d instead and forget about undesirable belly fat.

2. Get a healthier skin

Healthy skin is the one that gets enough fresh air regularly so you should let it breathe freely. Sleeping nak*d lets your skin get plenty of clean air and it prevents you from meeting dermatologist because of rash, irritation and other skin issues.

3. Increase intimacy

If you sleep with your partner, sleeping nak*d will better your $exual life. Skin to skin contact increases $exual tension. Your significant other will be ready for more even without any touches because men like to look at women`s body and enjoy its natural beauty. It turns them on so you may expect something new from your guy if you forget to wear your pajama. When you touch each other, it helps your bodies release oxytocin – the hormone of love, and boosts the chances of spending an unforgettable night together.

4. Improve your sleep

The body`s temperature naturally lowers when we sleep. However, it doesn`t happen so when you wear pajama. The warm body condition leads to a number of sleep disorders including insomnia. Sleeping nak*d, on the contrary, improves your sleep and your overall health. People who don’t get high quality, uninterrupted sleep each night feel and look unhealthy and live a shorter life. It sounds like a wonderful reason to get into a habit of sleeping nak*d.

5. It lets your vagina breathe freely

Woman`s vagina is a perfect environment for bacteria because it`s always humid and warm. Thanks to sleeping without any clothes, you`ll have a normal vagina flora and won`t catch any fungal infections. Let your tender skin down there breathe freely by sleeping nak*d each night.

6. It helps you become free

Every woman loves freedom. You can`t be fully happy when you can’t do what you want. Sleeping nak*d gives you freedom you crave. In ancient times people believed that those who slept dressed didn’t see prophetic dreams, which is why women and some men tried to sleep nak*d, when it was warm enough outside, of course.

7. Improve your blood pressure

Any type of underwear and pajama doesn`t let the blood flow freely all over the body. When you sleep nak*d, your muscles, brain and heart get enough blood inflow with better circulation. You wake up feeling refreshed and renewed, and ready to achieve all your goals easily.

8. Reduce your risk for type 2 diabetes

Feeling colder in the night decreases blood sugar levels, helps you have a better metabolism and prevents type 2 diabetes. Studies show that people who sleet almost nak*d can improve their health in several weeks only. Not only do you reduce your risk for type 2 diabetes, you also reduce your risk for heart disease and obesity.

I’ve been sleeping nak*d for a few years now and I really feel that I become healthier and have a better $exual life. I feel more confident and I can definitely say that this habit is worth trying at least once. I wake up and I feel enough energy and a strong desire to get the most out of life. Are you brave enough to start sleeping nak*d?

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